A modern alcohol-free bar experience rooted in connection, wellness, and community.

SO…what?

Why I Created SO Bar

I’ve always craved real community, but almost every social moment seemed to revolve around drinking. Wine Wednesdays, Sunday mimosas, “just take a shot”—it became the norm. And with it came the pressure: fit in, keep up, don’t be the odd one out.

Even when you think you don’t care, the culture around alcohol is powerful. Some people move through it easily, but many of us feel the pull more deeply. And stepping away can feel like stepping out.

SO bar was born from wanting something different. A space where you can be fully present, connected, and celebratory—without the pressure to drink. A place where the ritual stays, but the hangover doesn’t.

For centuries, kava has been used in Pacific Island cultures during gatherings and ceremonies to honor connection and community. That spirit is what inspires me.

Alcohol brings people together.
But what if we simply changed what’s in the cup?

MY STORY

GLOSSARY

A calming functional mushroom often called the “mushroom of relaxation.”
What it does: Supports a sense of balance, rest, and overall wellness.
Vibe: Perfect for evening drinks or anytime you want to unwind without alcohol.
A fluffy white mushroom used for clarity and focus.
What it does: Helps support cognitive function, creativity, and mental sharpness.
Vibe: Great in daytime blends when you want to feel clear and present.
A non-psychoactive compound from hemp (no high).
What it does: Supports calm, relaxation, and overall stress balance.
Vibe: Smooths the edges without slowing you down.
A traditional root from the South Pacific used in social and ceremonial settings.
What it does: Promotes deep relaxation and a sense of ease without impairing clarity.
Vibe: A natural alternative to alcohol for a grounded, chill feeling.
Note: Kava is calming — start low if you’re new.
Herbs and mushrooms that help the body stay balanced during stress.
What they do: Support mood, energy, and resilience.
Vibe: Think of them as little helpers for your overall mind-body harmony.
Ingredients that support cognitive function — focus, clarity, creativity.
What they do: Help you feel mentally “on” without the crash of caffeine.
Vibe: Great when you want to be social and sharp.
Plant-based ingredients like herbs, flowers, roots, and spices.
Examples: Hibiscus, ginger, mint, basil.
Vibe: Natural flavor, aroma, and feel-good properties in every sip.
Drinks formulated with ingredients that do more than taste good.
What they do: Support mood, focus, energy, or calm depending on the blend.
Vibe: Wellness you can sip on.